The Point Of A Journey Is Not To Arrive! Who Believes That?

Blair’s favorite comment when we start a road trip is, “The point of a journey is not to arrive” or “Getting there is half the fun” which means we are stopping a lot. When we plan a trip he will scour the tour books for all the great attractions along the way. Every majestic waterfall, historic landmark and BCAA Gem is added to the itinerary.

I can feel you all wondering, what is the problem? I agree, nothing! It makes sense to take in all the sites as we travel to our destination and thankfully he is the driver and so we stop at most of them. Here’s the problem!

I am a “Type A” personality, so while I understand the theory of stopping at all great site seeing opportunities, I also understand “let’s get to the destination so we can start our vacation”.

I have a hard time enjoying the stops in between our destination. When Blair is planning the excursions I am excited and fully on board but something changes as soon as I get in the passenger seat of a fully loaded vacation vehicle. I cannot explain it, logically I know it is best to take in all the sites he has planned, but as soon as we start our road trip I transform into no fun mom and I want to get there now. Once we arrive I am back to myself and ready to enjoy all the area has to offer but the time between our driveway and our destination is not pretty.

Animal Wildlife Refuge where our spare tire cover was stolen by wolf!
Animal Wildlife Refuge where our spare tire cover was stolen by wolf

So here is my summer resolution. I am going to try to enjoy our journeys more. I will relax in the passengers seat and let Blair dictate the travel plans until such time that I can learn to plan and enjoy them on my own.

Wish me luck and I will keep you posted on my progress.

8 responses to “The Point Of A Journey Is Not To Arrive! Who Believes That?”

  1. In fact, you so describe our family that my husband calls it the “no fun zone”. And usually the “no fun zone” is me… also being a bit type A myself 🙂

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    1. So funny, glad I am not alone.

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  2. Great post, and good luck with your resolution! But I have to say that each of those photos looks like an awesome ‘destination’ in itself!

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    1. It was and after the fact I know it was the right decision to stop but in the moment I want to drive in my.

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  3. Sometimes, we plan a lot of activities, but we don’t end up doing them because we are tired and we want to come to our next destination (especially during road trip). I would say, try to enjoy but don’t force yourself 😉

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    1. I agree in theory but then my overly organized and type A mind takes over and I just want to get there. Maybe I will mellow as I age.

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      1. haha, who knows ! 😀

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  4. “Point of a journey is not to arrive” Neil Peart, Rush. Prime Mover.

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